Anger and Hatred

Something actually prompted me into this blog.As many of my friends would know,I belong to those groupie of the fastest flare-ups and temper.This in fact have brought many incidents and experiences moulding me into what I am today.
Tempers are something which cant be cultivated,I should be blessed that I have such a huge one,always ready to be utilized.

Still,being angry and grumpy about everything doesnt change ANYTHING.

Let me refer to our anger and negatives thoughts as ''arrows''.When we are agitated by such ''arrows'',we normally would stop to ponder where these arrows are,the intention of the shooter,the explanation on what kind of mentality made him do that,or the type of material its made,in this case,issit via anger,jealousy or just a joke.

I'm always full of craps,but still I have my own share of unpleasantness.Sometimes when I say something out,its never to hurt or mock at anyone.And I always extend my apologies to anyone I've hurt,cos I should never have my share of laughter at the expense of others..

Though never easy,even for myself.things should go about in a better certain way.I'm very sensitive to people interaction,when I know someone is going to get pissed very soon,I not rattle on.Still,we should take actions for our own motives or actions.

That's where the important practice of thinking for that somebody in their shoes comes in.It will makes you ponder and try to search for reasons,why the certain person would commit such a fault or action.Try it sometimes and you;ll know the difference and it feels good,something which cant be bought from anywhere,anyone.

An end result,or a product of patience and tolerance is forgiveness.When you are truly patient and tolerant,forgiveness will come naturally.And it will appease all kinds of anger,making you a more productive and more humane being..