Wah Lau eh.....
Actually overheard a conversation from a very likely to be from SAJC kinda girl..On the phone,"aiyah,he can go and wait all he like lor,I dont even care when he's from some neighborhood school."
This actually caught my attention,I kaypoh and followed her towards her direction,see what more she got to say.Still acting like a super big model when she looked like she been ran over by a lorry and dragged for a distance,she continued,"last night,I met this guy who just came back from overseas,looks okay lah,but he must be minted.." Shocked again...
Actually sometimes do we even ponder about some things?True,we seek constant upgrading and better life,but to judge or befriend anyone by their education status,family background,type of cars,looks are really unfair and superficial.
Looks first,everyone wants nice beautiful things,including their spouses or boyfriends or even the kind of friend they hang about it..the norm is cheong kakis all one group,yuppie one group,grunge one group and the ugly+despised one group,wrong,they been isolated in a corner till they bo-pian,so form a group.We all know this is not the right way to deal with human beings,but we been brought up in such a realistic society,even you got what it takes,if you look ugly,likely that you wont get many chances.
Think about it and try to change if possible,which for many is impossible.So many would think going out with parents or grandparents are uncool,cos they dont know the lastest trend or now can take MRT to airport liao.As offsprings,its our duty to tell them and show them the place they too contributed a part to make it what it is today.
Education.Diplomas,certificates,BA,MA scattered everywhere,almost everyone can fill in something in their education background.Though I dont have anything to throw at any HR manager,but I can still gel with anyone of higher educational status,because I treat everyone equal and with true sincere feelings.
Even before everything started,did we have to strive hard to study to make our country what it was today??No.It was true hard work and pure hardcore determination.Our ancestors and pioneers of Singapore only got their own hands to create a wonderful place to living for us.Its not due to studies we people know its important to care for our own beings.Its something borne in us,it makes us amazingly know what to do when we need to eat,drink and relate things to others.As long as someone is contributing to the society,they are useful and in a way they even help you in the things you use,read everyday and food you eat everyday.So in other words,there no one being more superior than others in anyway.
So STOP flaunting your knowledge to brag or boast or put someone down.!!
Cars,no need to say much,we all know it too well..
Money.Wearing the right clothes gives you the extra confidence in your whole day.Grooming is another way of cultivating your own soul.Why ? Because when you groom,it either makes you more realistic or more shameless.Some groom for the sake of looking good and pleasing the people around them,some groom to scare the hell outta anyone..But how many times have we bought something only to be deemed useless after a year without any usage.Everyone can shop,buy nice clothings,its how you pay your bill at the end of the day.
Credit cards,it seem so good to flash a gold card around,so I fought hard and got four till date,but so?? My cousin have a platinum card and she's much more thrifty than me.So why even bother whether that certain person is minted or poor,in my life,there are only three kind of people,either they inherit a huge money,or they struck lottery,or those who are mentally sufficient are also considered ''rich''.But not those who slog and work hard,cos hard working beings dont strike it rich,once they do,they fall into the category of lazy people,cos they think money is easy to come by..
Though some parts of my blogs doesnt make sense,I also dunno how to put it across,its something I just thought about it...
This actually caught my attention,I kaypoh and followed her towards her direction,see what more she got to say.Still acting like a super big model when she looked like she been ran over by a lorry and dragged for a distance,she continued,"last night,I met this guy who just came back from overseas,looks okay lah,but he must be minted.." Shocked again...
Actually sometimes do we even ponder about some things?True,we seek constant upgrading and better life,but to judge or befriend anyone by their education status,family background,type of cars,looks are really unfair and superficial.
Looks first,everyone wants nice beautiful things,including their spouses or boyfriends or even the kind of friend they hang about it..the norm is cheong kakis all one group,yuppie one group,grunge one group and the ugly+despised one group,wrong,they been isolated in a corner till they bo-pian,so form a group.We all know this is not the right way to deal with human beings,but we been brought up in such a realistic society,even you got what it takes,if you look ugly,likely that you wont get many chances.
Think about it and try to change if possible,which for many is impossible.So many would think going out with parents or grandparents are uncool,cos they dont know the lastest trend or now can take MRT to airport liao.As offsprings,its our duty to tell them and show them the place they too contributed a part to make it what it is today.
Education.Diplomas,certificates,BA,MA scattered everywhere,almost everyone can fill in something in their education background.Though I dont have anything to throw at any HR manager,but I can still gel with anyone of higher educational status,because I treat everyone equal and with true sincere feelings.
Even before everything started,did we have to strive hard to study to make our country what it was today??No.It was true hard work and pure hardcore determination.Our ancestors and pioneers of Singapore only got their own hands to create a wonderful place to living for us.Its not due to studies we people know its important to care for our own beings.Its something borne in us,it makes us amazingly know what to do when we need to eat,drink and relate things to others.As long as someone is contributing to the society,they are useful and in a way they even help you in the things you use,read everyday and food you eat everyday.So in other words,there no one being more superior than others in anyway.
So STOP flaunting your knowledge to brag or boast or put someone down.!!
Cars,no need to say much,we all know it too well..
Money.Wearing the right clothes gives you the extra confidence in your whole day.Grooming is another way of cultivating your own soul.Why ? Because when you groom,it either makes you more realistic or more shameless.Some groom for the sake of looking good and pleasing the people around them,some groom to scare the hell outta anyone..But how many times have we bought something only to be deemed useless after a year without any usage.Everyone can shop,buy nice clothings,its how you pay your bill at the end of the day.
Credit cards,it seem so good to flash a gold card around,so I fought hard and got four till date,but so?? My cousin have a platinum card and she's much more thrifty than me.So why even bother whether that certain person is minted or poor,in my life,there are only three kind of people,either they inherit a huge money,or they struck lottery,or those who are mentally sufficient are also considered ''rich''.But not those who slog and work hard,cos hard working beings dont strike it rich,once they do,they fall into the category of lazy people,cos they think money is easy to come by..
Though some parts of my blogs doesnt make sense,I also dunno how to put it across,its something I just thought about it...


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