Initimacy

Intimacy....Being intimate is our way of feeling another person thru our senses,how this feeling presents him/herself to us,it will be felt.Normally intimate is a way of showing others that two person haven merged together.

So many couples I saw today were hugging tightly even up the escalator,thought we been taught to stand on the left side ? Or simple hugging and lapping into each other almost anywhere and everywhere !! No,I dont feel jealous,just that its a bit disturbing,to present your affection for that special someone issit like this I think.There was even a girl who kept burying her head into her bf's armpit,I dont know if its her fetish but I didnt managed to snap it in time.And too many people.

In 17Th century in Germany,newly wed couple have to consummate their marriage in the presence of their witnesses. Being intimate is part and parcel in life,but you can also put intimacy to other good use.Patting the shoulders of someone that helped you or greeted you is a great way of showing respect and will make anyone happy.When I say PAT,it mean a series of light touches...Or shaking hands after salesmen or saleswomen have made their point across to you,whether you buy it or not,its a way of motivating them that their style of working been recognized.

I remembered a few years back,one of my friends contracted HIV from one-night stands.And after further investigations from MOH and CDC,it been known that the girl who was the second carrier actually went about for one-night stands just because of her hatred of the first carrier that passed the virus to her.Ironic,if you think and sympathy for the people that got it from her,they deserved to be punished for their failure to stick to one clean partner.On empathy terms,what about their families?They are embroiled in mental stress because of one person's action.How will it affect them?Things are always connected,you will figure out how it will affect them.

Intimate attachments to other human beings are the hub around which a person's life revolves.Many a times,people seek for upgrades,better figures,better relationship,better jobs,better looks and better spouses.Its all craps that a good relationship is based on good sex.Sex polishes the gleam on both of you together if you realize the true bond between the two of you.I say so,because I do know of people that one are together for sex.

Romance,why even think of a romantic relationship? Romantic relationships do not last,relationships based on romance will never last.Thats why everyone going into lousy relationships problems,because building a relationship based on romance is like builing a house on ice..Once it melts,everything is gone.Once the romance is gone,both of you realize you both cant get together,that's when the spark just goes out.

Sexual attraction,or even the intense feeling of falling in love may play a role in forming an initial bond between two people.To draw them together,but like a good epoxy glue,that initial bonding agent needs to be mixed with other ingredients before it will harden into a lasting bond.Mutual respect,empathy are two of the most important 'ingredients' for a lasting relationship.These relationships are the strongest and able to withstand virtually any shocks.It becomes a meaningful and deep bond.Opening up unlimited possibilities and opportunities for connection.