Aiyoh...Love again.....
Relationships,today I heard something quite true about love...
Humans aside, animals....
They mate before knowing each other,before dating,have children and live on,without signs of leaving or dislike. A reserve cycle from what we do,know each other,then as friends then as bf and gf then moving on...
But dont think animals are animals and we are not compared to them...before our time,matchmaking was the "in" thing in kampong and such...couples do not know each other before hand,maybe only where they are from,they have kids and then develope feelings through long toiling years...
Hmm...pondering about this,they dont even talk about divorce or break-ups..And why such a rising occurance in our relationships recently ??
I've seen long years relationship breaking up,whether its mutual or forceful breakup,it makes no sense. Imagine you giving in years of nurturing and care into something,and to get a BIG ZERO in return,whats the logic behind it?
Should we do things in the same way and realise our incompatible years later,or get straight to things and get it right ?
Guys approach girls for the ultimate reason, to land them in bed someday...This is a very biased statement,but I'm just talking in very general terms. If you were to land someone in bed,attracted by their looks and try to work your way in,why dont you tell her straight ?? Issit it more truthful in that way...realtionship should start from truth and honesty,not deception..But do things really work out if truth is one of the starting element ?? A BIG NO again.....
I think we should just live ourselves as we want,without holding any hopes of a certain kind of spouse or the kind of treatment we expect...treat a new relationship or even a new encounter with anyone as a new start, inject curiousity and commitment into every single meeting,the results will be phenomenal,and you'll never know what you'll get...Life's always turns round,if you dun have a hope,you wont feel disappointed,in turn giving you a happier relation with anyone..
Humans aside, animals....
They mate before knowing each other,before dating,have children and live on,without signs of leaving or dislike. A reserve cycle from what we do,know each other,then as friends then as bf and gf then moving on...
But dont think animals are animals and we are not compared to them...before our time,matchmaking was the "in" thing in kampong and such...couples do not know each other before hand,maybe only where they are from,they have kids and then develope feelings through long toiling years...
Hmm...pondering about this,they dont even talk about divorce or break-ups..And why such a rising occurance in our relationships recently ??
I've seen long years relationship breaking up,whether its mutual or forceful breakup,it makes no sense. Imagine you giving in years of nurturing and care into something,and to get a BIG ZERO in return,whats the logic behind it?
Should we do things in the same way and realise our incompatible years later,or get straight to things and get it right ?
Guys approach girls for the ultimate reason, to land them in bed someday...This is a very biased statement,but I'm just talking in very general terms. If you were to land someone in bed,attracted by their looks and try to work your way in,why dont you tell her straight ?? Issit it more truthful in that way...realtionship should start from truth and honesty,not deception..But do things really work out if truth is one of the starting element ?? A BIG NO again.....
I think we should just live ourselves as we want,without holding any hopes of a certain kind of spouse or the kind of treatment we expect...treat a new relationship or even a new encounter with anyone as a new start, inject curiousity and commitment into every single meeting,the results will be phenomenal,and you'll never know what you'll get...Life's always turns round,if you dun have a hope,you wont feel disappointed,in turn giving you a happier relation with anyone..
posted by Derek Tan at
9/09/2005 10:12:00 PM
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